THEY ALSO LIVED IT

THEY ALSO LIVED IT

When navigating a transition, it’s helpful to have people around who get it and get you. Most people know having people who genuinely get you and love you is absolutely essential to thrive in life. If you are like I was, you may underestimate the importance of having...
BE THE FIRST

BE THE FIRST

Somebody has to be the first. Over the years, I’ve claimed this concept with varying levels of enthusiasm depending on my baseline mood. Ironically, it’s at the extremes of my spiritual well-being (super at peace or completely over it) when I tend to be most open to...
WHERE YOU ARE OR ELSEWHERE?

WHERE YOU ARE OR ELSEWHERE?

One of the biggest hurdles for many early career physicians is knowing when and how to transition out of their first job. Leaving in exasperation or desperation can set a pattern of looking at the wrong characteristics in a job and ending up with a string of bad fits....
SO MUCH I DIDN’T KNOW

SO MUCH I DIDN’T KNOW

We are currently in National Physicians’ Week…at the end of Women’s History Month…and a week removed from the National Residency Match Day. All that attention on physicians and women has me reflecting on what I’ve learned over years of navigating life as a woman...
MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS

MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS

That’s not my business. I’ve had to get accustomed to hearing and accepting this phrase from myself since the pandemic began. It’s tempting to think everything I care about it is my business. That mindset rarely serves me. For clarity’s sake, let me state I consider...
BE AWARE OF YOUR LIGHT

BE AWARE OF YOUR LIGHT

Girl, it’s a set up. I find myself telling women friends, mentees and clients some version of this statement pretty regularly. You see women have a slippery slope to navigate in the professional world. It’s a fine balance between exhibiting clear competence and...